Queen Bees and Pool Culture

Mia Hayes
5 min readJul 14, 2022

Women are the harshest judges of women

Photo by Armin Rimoldi on Pexels

“That will be us in five years if we’re not careful.” The words strike me as I pass a trio of women sunning themselves on loungers next to the adult pool.

Even though the deck is empty except for us, I stop at a chaise two over from them and drop my hat and towel on it. My son, Leo, is meeting me and unlike me, he loves baking in the sun — and these…

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Mia Hayes

40-something trying to live several lifetimes at once. Stay-at-home author, mom, and wife.